Rona B.Subotnik, Marriage and Family Therapist


Listed below are books that you might find helpful. You can find them at your local bookstore or order them online at Barnes & Noble or


Beck, Aaron T. Love Is Never Enough. New York: Harper and Row. 1988.
Burns, David. Feeling Good. New York: William Morrow and Company. 1980.
Burns, David. Intimate Connections. New York: William Morrow and Company. 1985.
Burns, David. The Feeling Good Handbook. New York: William Morrow and Company. 1989.
Carnes, Patrick. Out of the Shadows. Center City, Minneapolis: Hazelden. 1992.
Carnes, Patrick. In The Shadows of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Sexual Addiction. Minnesota: Hazeldon. 2004.
Frankl, Viktor E. Man's Search For Meaning. New York: Washington Square Press. 1963.
Glass, Shirley. Not "Just Friends" Protect Your Relationship From Infidelity and Heal The Trauma of Betrayal. New York: Free Press of Simon &Schuster, Inc.. 2003
Gottman, John. The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work. New York: Three Rivers Press. 1999.
Greenfield, D. Virtual Addiction. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, Inc..1999.
Grosskopf, Barry. Forgive Your Parents, Heal Yourself. New York: Free Press. 1999.
Lerner, Harriet. The Dance of Anger. New York: Harper and Row. 1985.
Luskin, Frederick. Forgive for Good: A Proven Prescription For Health and Happiness. New York: Harpers Collins. 2002.
Lusterman, Don-David. Infidelity: A Survival Guide. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications. 1998.
Maheu, Marlene and Subotnik, Rona B. Infidelity on the Internet: Virtual Relationships and Real Betrayal. Naperville, IL: Sourcebooks. 2001.
Maltz, Maxwell. Psycho-Cybernetics. New York: Prentice-Hall, Inc. 1960.
Morton, Andrew. Monica's Story. New York: St. Martin's Press.1999.
Pittman, Frank. Man Enough: Fathers, Sons, and the Search for Masculinity. New York: Berkley Publishing Group. 1993.
Pittman, Frank. Private Lies. New York: W.W. Norton. 1989.
Rubenstein, Carin, and Phillip Shaver. In Search Of Intimacy. New York: Delacorte. 1982.
Schneider, Jennifer. Back From Betrayal. New York: Ballantine Books. 1990.
Schneider, Jennifer. & Weiss, Robert. Cybersex Exposed: Simple Fantasy or Obsession? Center City, Minnesota: Hazelton. 2001.
Scarf, Maggie. Secrets, Lies, Betrayals: The Body/Mind Connection. New York: Random House 2004.
Scarf, Maggie. Intimate Partners. New York: Ballantine Books: 1981.
Spring, Janis Abrahms. After the Affair. New York: HarperCollins. 1996.
Spring, Janis Abrahms. How Can I Forgive You? New York: Harper Collins. 2004.
Sternberg, Robert. The Triangle Of Love: Intimacy, Passion, And Commitment. New York: Basic Books. 1988.
Subotnik, Rona. Will He Really Leave Her For Me? Massachusetts: Adams Media. 2005.
Subotnik, Rona. and Harris, Gloria. Surviving Infidelity: Making Decisions, Recovering From the Pain. Third Edition. Avon Massachusetts : Adams Media. 2005.
Young, Kimberly. Caught in the Net. New York: Wiley, 1998.
Vaughan, Peggy. The Monogamy Myth. New York: New Market Press. 1989.
Vaughan, Peggy. Dear Peggy. Peggy Vaughan answers questions about extramarital affairs. La Jolla, CA: Interview Press. 1999.
Wallerstein, Judith S. and Kelly, Joan B. Surviving The Breaks-up: How Children and Parents Cope With Divorce. New York: Basic Books.1996.
Weiss, Robert. Marital Separation. New York: Basic Books. 1975.
Weiss, Robert. Going It Alone. New York: Basic Books. 1981.


Hosseini, Kaholed. The Kite Runner. New York: Riverhead Books. 2003.
Shreive, Anita. The Pilot's Wife. New York: Little, Brown and Co. 1998.
Tyler, Anne. The Amateur Marriage. New York: Random House. 2004.


Cato, Leigh. The Other Woman. Atlanta, Georgia: The Longstreet Press. 1996.
Fonda, Jane. My Life So Far. New York: Random House. 2005.
Smith, Diane Shader Smith. Undressing Infidelity. Avon, Mass: Adams Media, 2005.
Vanderbilt, Gloria. It Seemed Important at the Time: A Romance Memoir. New York: Simon & Shuster, 2004.

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